From: Dean H on 25 Jul 2010 06:34 On Jul 24, 11:30 pm, scrape <scrapeNoTha...(a)earth--link.net> wrote: > On Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:09:56 +0200, Rowdy <thy...(a)hottmail.com> wrote: > >Am 24.07.2010 14:46, schrieb scrape: > >> On Sat, 24 Jul 2010 14:18:57 +0200, Rowdy<thy...(a)hottmail.com> wrote: > >>> Isn't one of the advantages of a wife becomming an ex wife > >>> that one can attend as many spodefest as he wishes? > > >> Not when some lawyer finds a way for her to dictate how you get to use > >> your money. > > >Huh? Normally they fight for who gets what and how much. The judge > >picks one of those options, and from then on she gets X % of his income. > >It news to me that the judge can restrict what he does with the 100-X % > >of his income. On what grounds should such severe interference with his > >life be justifiable, as long as she gets "her" monthly X % ? > > The lawyers aren't necessarily trying to find a way to restrict what's > done with what's left after they pick the bones clean, but, well, you > know. <breaking my own posting rules here...> Exactly. Their window of bone-picking opportunity ends in September, so they fabricate reasons to get before a judge hoping to get whatever is left on the bone. I have found that they are willing to commit six- figure perjury, and that the judge doesn't care if they do. Noting said perjury to the judge I was told by the judge "you just want to feel good". The state agency that enforces child support is unable to accept both sides of cancelled checks as proof of payment. Only a judge or my ex- wife can declare them valid. The proof has been in their file for months, but the payments don't show up on the automaton's glowing CRT so I don't get credit for them. Also, the perjurers expect me to reimburse medical bills without proof that they are real. In the old days I trusted my ex on medical bills, but now with the lies, lies, and more lies, I don't. If she was so far off on the payments I had made to her, she is probably off on the medical numbers too. So, yeah, I'll be being treated like a criminal in court because of my penis while you folks are festing. When I calm down, I blame the lawyers (including two judges) for 99% of this. The system, at least in CT, is a joke. -Dean Scrape's favorite part would have been when the lady for whom English is clearly a second language started reading the decree to me so that I could understand the subtleties of the language.
From: scrape on 25 Jul 2010 09:52 On Sun, 25 Jul 2010 03:34:36 -0700 (PDT), Dean H <dfhyman(a)optonline.net> wrote: >Scrape's favorite part would have been when the lady for whom English >is clearly a second language started reading the decree to me so that >I could understand the subtleties of the language. I. Hate. Lawyers. They are 100% the root of everything that is wrong with this country. They know it and they've created a system that ensures that nothing can be done about it. Another note: Yesterday, I saw a, uhmmm, person for whom English is clearly a second (if any) language standing on a street corner with a sign begging. My thought at this point, after conferring with a couple folks, is that this guy was taking away a job from a perfectly willing to beg, American bum.
From: HellSickle on 25 Jul 2010 10:51 Dean, I feel your pain. I get the pleasure of a court appearance 2 days before we head to Spodefest. Another one 6 weeks later. I did get a voice in setting dates and was prepared to veto any date that would even remotely interfere with a potential riding trip. After the magistrate hears both contempt cases, I expect they will have a very unfavorable impression of the ex- for any future action. She fully admitted guilt in an email for a couple of the charges. After hearing that one, her atty commented "That wasn't very bright". Divorce, the gift that keeps on giving. :-/ -Jeff-
From: Mike Baxter on 25 Jul 2010 11:25 Well, It looks like I picked up another attendee. Some of you might remember Doug Landau (doug.landau(a)gmail.com). Well, he is coming with me and will be riding my spare GasGas. If things go as planned, we should be arriving on Thursday Tracy flys in on Tuesday to join in on the fun. Tracy is currently going through our camping "stuff" and getting organiazed. I'm obviously wasting time. Once the caffein starts working, so will I. Mike Baxter
From: IdaSpode on 25 Jul 2010 11:57
On Sun, 25 Jul 2010 08:25:19 -0700, Mike Baxter <mgb***@comcast.net> wrote: >Well, It looks like I picked up another attendee. Some of you might >remember Doug Landau (doug.landau(a)gmail.com). Well, he is coming with >me and will be riding my spare GasGas. If things go as planned, we >should be arriving on Thursday Tracy flys in on Tuesday to join in on >the fun. > >Tracy is currently going through our camping "stuff" and getting >organiazed. I'm obviously wasting time. Once the caffein starts >working, so will I. Just like old times! You may consider leaving a day or two earlier than planned, Doug has a history ya know... >Mike Baxter DJ |